It must have been hard for Jairus to make that approach to Jesus! (Mark 5:21-43). Jairus had a position, in the synagogue, in the community. He knew Jesus was not popular with some people – important people. There would be comments and criticism! And – what if Jesus said no, and wouldn’t come, or couldn’t heal his daughter? We don’t know how much of a struggle it was, but we can begin to guess.
It must have been hard for that woman to touch Jesus in the crowd! He might have been so angry! But she had to try. She felt she had nothing to lose (though it could have turned out badly). It looks as if Jesus is being cruel in making her come forward – but I think it is more about making her sure about her healing and his acceptance, so that she can resume a life, with faith.
It looks as if Jesus is being cruel making Jairus wait while he stops to talk to the woman. That’s when the messengers come to say that his daughter has now died. But again, it works for the best. Jairus has even more reason to trust and be thankful to Jesus, and to face down any criticism or hostility.
Of course, Mark is pointing out that, while we have different difficulties asking Jesus for help, and trusting him, we all find it hard. But we all need to take the risk, – and despite our fears, we will be welcome, and find the best way. We don’t know how these two people went on, just as I will have no idea what effect reading this will have on you. It’s more important that God knows, and that your trust in him grows.